Commitment in Love

Admin March 13, 2022 0

Love is a form of emotion. As with other forms of emotion, it is difficult to last very long. Though people always hope to have love forever. Well, therefore there must be a commitment to perpetuate love. If love recedes, it can be strengthened again with a commitment. This commitment ensures the continuity of the love relationship. If there is no commitment, then when love recedes the relationship will break up. Those who have been married and divorced many times usually only have love but no commitment. So what exactly is commitment? Commitment is defined as a psychological state when a person feels attached or connected to someone, and directly influences a person's decision to continue or end the relationship. If you have a high commitment, then you feel very attached to your partner and will not end the relationship. If a relationship is broken, you will try to fix it. Conversely, if you have a low commitment, then you are less attached to your partner. Maybe you will cheat or even intend to end the relationship. Meanwhile, if you end the relationship altogether, of course you will be called non-committal.

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Commitment is more often the result of a process, than it appears suddenly. Usually commitment will arise when satisfaction in the relationship increases, relationship alternatives are scarce (e.g. it is difficult to find a new lover), and a large amount of investment has been invested in the relationship (e.g. the experience of going through difficulties together). In general, commitment can be divided into 2 categories based on the motivation, namely commitment to approach and commitment to stay away. This type of close commitment is a commitment that is characterized by a desire to continue the relationship because it can get something positive. For example, believe that if you are committed, your life will be happier. While the type of avoidance commitment is characterized by the desire to continue the relationship for fear of negative impacts if the relationship disbands. For example, worried that it will be difficult to find a suitable replacement, fear of losing financial resources, fear of being criticized by family and others. People who have this type of avoidance commitment generally have low life satisfaction.