Conflict in Love

Have you ever had a fight with your partner? Have you ever scolded him or were you scolded by him? Almost all couples must have experienced conflict. However, most conflicts between couples are actually small things. Like a word, only pebbles tickle the footprints. However, sometimes conflict can jeopardize love relationships. The occurrence of conflict tends to be more and more as the interaction is getting closer, the more time is spent together, and the more activities are carried out together. Rarely is there a conflict when it starts to build a love relationship. Precisely after a long relationship, conflicts can often arise. You may have heard complaints about couples who never fight when they are dating, but after marriage they often fight. 

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Actually, it is natural because the interaction is getting more frequent. Based on the source of the causes, conflicts can be divided into 3 major groups, namely conflicts that originate from the specific behavior of partners, from role norms, and due to personal dispositions. The source of the conflict is due to the specific behavior of the partner, such as being dirty, immoral, embarrassing, drug addiction, and so on. This includes not following the wishes of your partner. Conflicts due to role norms relate to matters surrounding the rights and obligations of the partners involved. The types of conflict sources, for example, are broken promises, lack of balance in reciprocal relationships (one party feels he has more tasks), and neglecting mutually agreed upon tasks. Affair or cheating is one of the major sources of conflict that comes from role norms. One source of conflict is due to personal disposition. A person behaves characteristically in response to the behavior of a partner. Those who are angry, will always be angry for trivial things such as being slow to wash dishes. Those who think negatively will always judge negatively the things that their partner does. For example, just because there is an SMS saying 'How are you', you will immediately be completely jealous.