Is there true love?

What is true love? Many people do not understand it. But so many believe that true love must exist for every human being. Only that someone will find it or not. It is as if true love will be carried by a mysterious figure who comes from nowhere, who will take love in his hands and give it to you. 

If you haven't found it, it will be searched until it can, until whenever. Many people say, "I will wait for my true love to arrive, anytime, anywhere!" As if true love is a blessing that comes from the sky. But love, does not come suddenly. It is not a blessing. He is present in our lives as we eat or drink. Not amazing. According to Abraham Maslow, one of the leading psychology figures, true love exists. 

True love is when we love others for who they are, have no need for love, and don't love ourselves. True love is characterized by when attention to the loved one brings satisfaction as when getting attention from him. Another characteristic of true love is respecting the loved one, and motivating what interests him. Happiness is a combination of what is best for him and what he wants for himself. 

The attention will end for him and will never end. We respect the one we love as a separate person from ourselves, not to manipulate, dominate, and control it. Attention in true love must be sincere. When attention is a representation of a lack of love (love deficiency), it may be manipulated (I show concern for you because I expect something from you), suppressing/stifling (I care about you whether you need my attention or not), lead to dependence (I pay attention to you because I don't want you to) being free), aggressive (I'm watching you, so you should pay more attention to me). The question is, do you have that true love?