Who doesn't know the word love?

Who doesn't know the word love? Everyone must know the word love. It's almost hard to find a song or movie that isn't about love. Almost everyone claims to have fallen in love in their life. Have you ever fallen in love?! Of course ever. But what does the word love really mean? Well, not everyone fully understands this one. Before discussing further, it must first be limited to what love will be discussed.

This book will only discuss romantic love between 2 adults; between men and women, between women and men, or between gay and lesbian couples. So, you have to remember, love here is only romantic love. We will not discuss love for fellow human beings, love for God, love for children and the like. The love discussed is Romeo's love for Juliet, Layla's love for Majnun. Love is an emotion that contains attraction, sexual desire, and attention to someone. 

Love makes a person want to have a special relationship with another person in certain special ways. These methods consist of several things. First, connectedness physically (physically). If you love someone, then you want to be physically close to them. You want to be close to him. If it is far away, then you miss it. Physical connection also means the desire to have sex with him. 

There is sexual desire in love. Second, connectedness of experience and emotional involvement. If you love someone, then you want to have an experience with them. Your experience would like to be shared with him. You want to be a part of the experience he has. You want, you are important to the one you love. You also have a deep emotional attachment to him. If someone talks badly about it, you tend not to like the conversation. Third, share in an experience full of intimacy. If you love someone, then you want to be in an intimate setting. You want no one else to be in the relationship. 

Only the two of them were in it. Go everywhere you want to be alone. If someone jumps in, you don't like it. In short, you want to be intimate. Now, from the three things above, it becomes clear that love must contain attention, attachment and intimacy. If one does not exist, then it is not love.